Hello everyone!  I am new to this community and desire to reflect on the upcoming Holiday season and the knowledge that it is okay to "not do it all".  Saying No, staying home occasionally and ensuring adequate rest is healthy and should be acceptable!  I commit to listening to my mind/body/self and knowing that is OK to say no to an event or gathering if I need more rest or relaxation!  The "Reason for the Season" is not crazy-making or stress!!