Healthy Nurse, Healthy Nation - Find Your Balance Challenge - Day 4 Tip - Do You Have A Hard Time Saying "no"?
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Welcome to day 4 of the Find Your Balance challenge.
Embrace the word "no". We don't hear it often, but it’s OK to turn down requests to cover a coworker’s shift, work overtime, or come in early. It’s nice to help out colleagues, but don’t do it at your own expense or feel guilty if you can’t or don't want to.
Do you have a hard time saying no? Let us know why or why or not in our discussion or in our Facebook group.
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Embrace the word "no". We don't hear it often, but it’s OK to turn down requests to cover a coworker’s shift, work overtime, or come in early. It’s nice to help out colleagues, but don’t do it at your own expense or feel guilty if you can’t or don't want to.
Do you have a hard time saying no? Let us know why or why or not in our discussion or in our Facebook group.
Find this helpful? Use the social share links on this page to share it with a nurse you know.
Missed day 3? Catch up here. Take a sneak peek at day 5.
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06/11/2019 9:04am CDT
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I definitely still have to watch my "people-pleasing" urge to take on projects and say Yes to everything. I think the underlying automatic negative thought that I have, is that people may think I am being selfish or may feel disappointed or let down but that's probably not the reality. Even if it is, those are their responses and I have to focus on mine. That may mean having to shift away any guilt, reflect on the reasons why I'm saying No and redirecting that self focus (not selfishness) into the areas that serve me best. Like all habits - it takes practice and constant reinforcement and commitment to make progress.